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Chill dad, he is good
Judith van Uden
Judith van Uden

Chill dad, he is good

Mansur and Khadija explore the personal qualities they believe are important in a suitable partner. They also discuss how family members and gender norms significantly shape their views when choosing a spouse.

This article is part of the series Marriage: Balancing romance at home and abroad:

  1. The bread of the house is eaten by strangers
  2. Marriage is the only option
  3. Chill dad, he is good
  4. We had two weddings but I only attended one

When Mansur sought Khadija's hand from her father, he faced inquiries about his income and job stability. Khadija's father emphasized that her choice of husband would hold her accountable for managing any future financial challenges. Conversely, Mansur discussed his intention to marry Khadija with his mother over the phone. She was interested in Khadija's genuine care for him, her family-oriented nature, and her willingness to stand by him through difficult times.

In the upcoming blog post, the couple will explain why they had two weddings but only attended one.